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The Niagara Region
is one of the safest places in the world. To help make it safer, the Niagara
Regional Police has compiled this information to assist and inform residents of the
Niagara Region, and those visiting our Web site from elsewhere in the world.
Following these suggestions will not eliminate abuse
and crimes against senior citizens, but an awareness of these crime prevention pointers
together with your own common sense, can help safeguard you or a loved one from harm.
What is Elder Abuse?
Elder abuse occurs when a person in a position of
authority or trust harms a senior citizen. Such a person may be a member of the
victim's family, a neighbor, nurse, or some other caregiver. It may also be a person
in some other position of power, such as a landlord, the executor of a will, or someone
with power of attorney over the victim's affairs.
Elder abuse may be physical, financial, or neglect.
For example, a child or caregiver may push, hit or threaten the victim. A
person with Power of Attorney may abuse their position, and use the finances for their own
personal use and gain. Children may abuse their parents by endorsing a cheque
without consent. Another example of elder abuse is neglect, where the victim is
refused food, medical care, over-medicated, or forcibly isolated.
Reasons Why Abuse is Seldom Reported
Elder abuse is seldom identified and rarely reported
to police. For this reason, it is referred to as a "hidden crime."
Victims may not report incidents of abuse, because:
- they feel betrayed by the abuser, and feel ashamed of
their mistreatment by family members or loved ones.
- they feel embarassment that they are in the position
of being a victim.
- they believe the police or other agencies can't help.
- they are afraid of being institutionalized.
- they are unaware of their rights.
- they are afraid of what will happen to the loved one
abusing them, or what will happen to them once the person who had power over their
finances or other aspects of their life is gone.
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Those who find that someone they know is being
abused don't report it because:
- they don't want to get involved
- they aren't aware of what can be done
- they aren't aware of the signs and symptoms of abuse
What You Can Do to Prevent Abuse
The Niagara Regional Police Service will investigate and lay charges
where appropriate against abusers. Victims are offered and provided with counselling
and assistance. By reporting abuse, you are combatting the problem.
You can also combat elder abuse before it happens, by following some
of the following tips to safeguard yourself or a loved one:
- Familiarize yourself with your spouse's tasks and responsibilities.
For example, learn how to write a cheque, balance a chequebook, what bills you pay
and how to read the invoices. This ensures continued independence should anything
happen to your spouse.
- Learn what your rights are. Regardless of whether you're living
in a private residence or an institution, it's important that you understand your rights,
and ask for advise.
- Plan ahead. Ensure that a Power of Attorney exists for your
finances, so that you're prepared if you ever become dependent. Before signing a
Power of Attorney, check with a lawyer or public trustee.
- Make sure others can verify you're being taken care of. Try to
appoint an Executor to your Will and/or someone with Power of Attorney that is accessible
by other family members and all parties mentioned in the Will. This will help to
ensure that others can check to see that you're being taken care of financially, and have
gotten everything mentioned in the Will.
- Have pension cheques deposited directly into your bank account.
- Increase the amount of training your caregiver currently has.
- Be cautious about moving in with someone, or having someone move in
with you. Consider possible problems, like lack of space, stairs, noise, loss of
control, etc.
- Be cautious about permitting adult children back into your home to
live (especially if those children have a history of drug, alcohol, financial or
psychological problems)
- Be aware of services available in your area, and take advantage of
the services you need. Meals-on-Wheels, daycare, transportation can provide you with
additional aid.
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